What is a Military Brat?

Most of us lived in Heidelberg sometime during the period that spanned the Cold War.  As a result,  we experienced life defined by the greater context of
the division between East and West.     Even the Lions stationed in Heidelberg after the fall of the Iron Curtain were/are a part of that scenery as the post
Cold War Heidelberg witnessed the reconnection of East and West Germany.  I may be wrong, but on some level, I am sure that we could all sense that we
were part of something bigger than ourselves  This deeper sense of commitment is an area of common ground that we all share.

Until about 1990, the world was polarized and our families were a part of maintaining Western security and global balance.   At some point during our
travels, that mission brought us to the beautiful city of Heidelberg and gave us a unique bond that was a background to our high school experience,
during a moment in history that no longer exists.   We had strong connections to each other (and still do) that may not have been apparent at the time.   We
share something special.  As (mostly) dependants of the Military, we attended an exceptional high school, in a beautiful city in the heart of Europe during
the middle of a tense game of nuclear politics and strategy.   It was a rare time that would pull us together in ways that would last significantly longer than
our overseas tour.  The Lions in Heidelberg today also are connected in similar ways and continue to show how remarkable that experience is.

This year at the funeral of a Heidelberg Lion, John Dodge, I was struck by how significant these relationships are.  John was surrounded by loved ones and
family, but it was Sandra Paguia ('83)  who got up to speak.  She talked about knowing John more than 25 years ago as kids playing marbles together.   She
mentioned the other Heidelbergers who hung out together at that time - the Maxons, Courlises, Hamms..and the Paguias.  She recalled that experience in
such a significant  way, as a fabric of her life and a memory that was still close to her.    RIcky Denburg, his sister and Mom had flown from Heidelberg to be
there and during the week other Heidelbergers shared their thoughts,  memories and support.   Francisco and Jenny Hamm, Ron Shun, Johnny Overcast,
Marcus Carpenter, to name a few.  There are many more who can be added to this list.

John's family, friends and wife are all now adopted into the Heidelberg family and there are more adoptees out there.  Many spouses are such a part of the
Heidelberg family, that it can be easy  to forget they did not go to school with us.  Teri and Terry VanWormer and Angela and Tad Lawson are the first two
couples that come to mind, but there are more out there.  As a school that has been open since 1946, we all continue to share ourselves with each other and
with the world.   Pretty amazing group of people - especially considering the short span of time we spent together.

DOD schools all over Europe have closed and there are rumors that soon Heidelberg American High School will graduate its last class.  Hopefully, we can
keep the spirit of Heidelberg alive in the years to come.  Keep connected, share your experiences, go to reunions, cherish the friendships that are old and
new.  As many of you have already discovered, Heidelberg exists in each one of us.  Whenever we can...lets keep that spirit alive.
© Connie Uthoff, 2006


Military brat
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Retrieved from "http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Military_brat"

"
Military brat is an informal term in American English for a child who has one or both parents who serves or served full-time in
the military. It implies that such an upbringing is different in important ways from that experienced by those in the community
at large, and can be an insult or a compliment, depending on the context. Although brat is usually taken to mean a spoiled
child, military brats are usually considered more disciplined than their civilian peers.

Being a military brat particularly implies that one:  (is this you???  )

  • **moved frequently as a child, because one's family was stationed at new locations every few years.
  • **attended many different schools and never established strong roots in a community.
  • **had exposure to military discipline and authority from early childhood, which often leads to comfort in
    dealing with institutional authority, but occasionally leads to rebellion against it.
  • **can make friends quickly, and can deal with long-distance relationships
  • **possesses a high cross-cultural understanding
  • **Later in life, military brats often find themselves very comfortable in foreign cultures. Many join the
    diplomatic corps or join the military themselves.

Third Culture Kid is a more general term for this phenomenon. It carries connotations of having a stricter
upbringing than many people.

The Camp Adventure program provides summer camps for children of military personel, both within the
United States and overseas."


Pop culture
A 1986 movie called The B.R.A.T. Patrol detailing the adventures of 'Military brat's on a United States Marine Corps base. The
term 'B.R.A.T.' stood for "Born, Raised And Trapped".
Child of Vietnam Veteran and military brat, Michelle Ferguson-Cohen, wrote and illustrated the first children's picture books to
help military brats coping with the deployment of a parent. She created the Books for Brats TM series, which released "Daddy,
You're My Hero!" and "Mommy, You're My Hero!" in 2003.


Retrieved from "http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Military_brat"

Other Brats Links
Brats Journey Home...Documentary about
Military Brats.

http://www.militarybrats.com/ is home to
Military Brats Online.
http://www.militarybrats.com/alumni.shtml
list of
school alumni associations.

http://www.tckworld.com/opfoot/  the site for
Operation Footlocker
http://www.tckworld.com is the home page
of TCK World.  The term refers to brats whose
world is neither the military one inside the
fence nor the civilian one outside, but is a third
category.
/mtom/, the DoD's Military Teens on the Move
site.  This site gives information on coping
with moves, as well as teen advice and a chat
room.
http://www.overseasbrats.com is Overseas
Brats. It helps connect overseas high school
alumni groups

http://www.SDIT.org is the site of Sons and
Daughters in Touch.  This site connects the
children of those who died or remain missing
as a result of the war in Vietnam.
Heidelberg Brats  -
Life as a Military Brat
Brats, Our Journey Home
New feature-length documentary about
military brats directed by Donna Musil and
featuring narration and music by Kris
Kristofferson.
What is a Military Brat?
Retrieved from "http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Military_brat"
"
Military brat is an informal term in American English for a child who has one or both parents who serves or
served full-time in the military. It implies that such an upbringing is different in important ways from that
experienced by those in the community at large, and can be an insult or a compliment, depending on the context.
Although brat is usually taken to mean a spoiled child, military brats are usually considered more disciplined
than their civilian peers."